I've been thinking a lot about the Presidential elections, as well as other down ballot elections. My strong support for President Obama isn't a surprise to anyone. I've been following politics really closely, and see from the outside now how important this election really is.
I will not rant on this blog. I hope that I will wake up on Wednesday morning and have a sigh of relief...and look forward to the next four years.
Political things I love:
1. Barack Obama, and staying with the hard job
2. Hillary and Bill
3. The Daily Show
4. Marriage Equality (Boy George said it all: love is love, baby)
5. Chris Christie telling everyone to bite me and get over it.
6. Immigration reform
7. Affordable Healthcare for all (we will all get old, we will all be sick)
8. The Washington Post, especially Dan Balz
9. The National Journal, especially Ron Brownstein
10. The Huffington Post, especially Howard Fineman
Political things I hate:
1. Rush Limbaugh
2. Koch Brothers
3. Voter registration hoaxes in FL (so blatant- Romney won't even comment on it)
4. "Heckuv a job" Brownie criticizing FEMA's response to Sandy (I want to remind everyone how incompetent I was during Katrina by saying "Obama acted too quickly" - whatanidiot)
5. Fox News
6. People who complain but never vote
7. Tea Party self-righteousness and self-imposed blindness
8. Mourdock, Akin and any other man making a rape/ reproductive rights judgement
9. Arizona
10. Veiled racism, sexism and anti-gay hate
I could go on, and on, and on.
We'll see on Wednesday. Hope and Pray.
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Monday, October 29, 2012
Another day in Shanghai...
One of the things I have noticed is there are many appliances here that don't work as well as in the US (dryers, dishwashers, air conditioners), but others that are far better.
1. Mosquito killers that looks like a tennis rackets. I tried one back home, but it didn't work at all. The one we have here is a death taser for mosquitos. I touched it myself and got zapped - lots of voltage stored on it.
2. Electric hot water kettle. This metal pot sits on a round base that looks like a hot plate. You plug in the base and the water in the kettle will be at a rapid boil in just a few minutes. I mean a rapid, roiling, hot lava-ish boil. It's scary how quickly it heats.
3. The water pressure here is really high. No low-flow conservation here.
4. We also have an adapter we bought for our Keurig coffee maker. The adapter is the size of a small loaf of bread, but weighs about 25lbs. It enables us to use the Chinese voltage with our US coffee maker. But when it gets turned on, it sounds like a jet engine getting ready for take off. Emily said "that's the most annoying sound in the world. ugh.", then I said "no, it's the second most annoying sound in the world".
1. Mosquito killers that looks like a tennis rackets. I tried one back home, but it didn't work at all. The one we have here is a death taser for mosquitos. I touched it myself and got zapped - lots of voltage stored on it.
2. Electric hot water kettle. This metal pot sits on a round base that looks like a hot plate. You plug in the base and the water in the kettle will be at a rapid boil in just a few minutes. I mean a rapid, roiling, hot lava-ish boil. It's scary how quickly it heats.
3. The water pressure here is really high. No low-flow conservation here.
4. We also have an adapter we bought for our Keurig coffee maker. The adapter is the size of a small loaf of bread, but weighs about 25lbs. It enables us to use the Chinese voltage with our US coffee maker. But when it gets turned on, it sounds like a jet engine getting ready for take off. Emily said "that's the most annoying sound in the world. ugh.", then I said "no, it's the second most annoying sound in the world".
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mosquito swatter |
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adapter |
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super tea kettle |
A few weeks ago, we went on a tour of the city of Shanghai on a double-decker bus. It was really nice. We toured around the city and relaxed while we listened to the tour audio on headphones. We stopped for lunch in an area called Xintiandi, which translated means "new heaven on earth". This is the historic site of the first Communist party meeting. It has beautiful old architecture, and houses lots of trendy shops and restaurants. It reminds me a little of Old Town in Pasadena, but without the teenagers.
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happily waiting for the bus |
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Katie and her friend Sarah riding on top |
skyline at the Bund |
Chris went on his first long bike ride on Sunday. They rode out into the country and saw lots of very poor villages and shamble housing. The kids still all came out smiling, saying hello. The air quality in China is not very good, and is a lot like it was when I was a kid growing up in LA. We would have smog alerts, and if the air was bad, we would not be able to play outside. It would hurt to take a deep breath. In Shanghai, some days the air is healthy, unhealthy, or even hazardous. That's why you see so many people wear masks while riding their bikes. They are driving in traffic, and gasoline here is still leaded.
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Bike stop |
There is a concern in the Chinese media lately about the separation of the classes. There is so much growth and money in this country. China is the largest retailer of luxury items right now. All designers have outlets in Shanghai, and everywhere there are high-end luxury and sports cars. We see Maseratis and Porsches that are not even available in the US yet. But there is still lots of poverty inland and in factory towns. The younger tech-savvy workforce is really into designer goods, pop culture and fashion. To them the future is bright, but they still have a duty to their families. I think this is true in many developing countries where the younger generation has opportunities that their parents aren't able to imagine.
I think it's a really interesting time to live in China.
Monday, October 22, 2012
Getting ready for Halloween
We brought some Halloween decorations with us, but I honestly thought we would be able to get more here. I mean, it is all made here. The girls and I decorated a little and we have a few small pumpkins. Large carving pumpkins are very, very hard to find. And are too heavy to lug home in a taxi or subway. Halloween is a new thing out here to most Chinese. But the younger people (teens, young adults) seem to be excited about it. I saw some people in their twenties trying on hats and looking at masks at Carrefore, and they were laughing and joking around. Even many of the European Moms I spoke with said Halloween is not such a big event back home. Maybe it's mostly an American tradition. This is when I miss living on Grand Oaks - sigh. Halloween was always so much fun in the neighborhood.
FAILS
1. Buying imported makeup. I really needed a new blush. Clinique blush in the US is $20 -$24 each. Here is it $45.00! I had not idea the price when I chose it, but it would be cheaper for me to have it sent from the US.
2. This is a really hard Mandarin lesson: Shì (am), Sì (4), Shí (10) !! The accent and tone of words when spoken make all the difference. The classes are very challenging, and worst of all, the kids are better at Mandarin than I am. They correct my accent all the time.
3. We are on the third person to come out and try to fix our super low water pressure in the back yard. I have a hose on the faucet, but the water is a light trickle at best. This is how things oftentimes are here. It takes about 3-4 different people to come out and even agree there is a problem before anyone can fix it.
4. The hair color I bought made my hair kinda purple-ly.
SUCCESS
1. Chris bought the girls new bikes last weekend. Katie, who was always afraid to ride back home, was so happy she rode and rode with her Daddy. Emily is already talking about riding her bike to the bus stop for school.
2. Went to see Jeri (plant lady) at her shop. Ordered lots of house and garden plants. She potted them, and delivered them that same afternoon. She also planted some outdoor plants for me, and gave me some good advice about gardening in China.
3. Made a big pot of Chili with Beans Sunday night. We had it with cheese, onions and tortilla chips. It was a cold night, and it was just what we needed.
FAILS
1. Buying imported makeup. I really needed a new blush. Clinique blush in the US is $20 -$24 each. Here is it $45.00! I had not idea the price when I chose it, but it would be cheaper for me to have it sent from the US.
2. This is a really hard Mandarin lesson: Shì (am), Sì (4), Shí (10) !! The accent and tone of words when spoken make all the difference. The classes are very challenging, and worst of all, the kids are better at Mandarin than I am. They correct my accent all the time.
3. We are on the third person to come out and try to fix our super low water pressure in the back yard. I have a hose on the faucet, but the water is a light trickle at best. This is how things oftentimes are here. It takes about 3-4 different people to come out and even agree there is a problem before anyone can fix it.
4. The hair color I bought made my hair kinda purple-ly.
SUCCESS
1. Chris bought the girls new bikes last weekend. Katie, who was always afraid to ride back home, was so happy she rode and rode with her Daddy. Emily is already talking about riding her bike to the bus stop for school.
2. Went to see Jeri (plant lady) at her shop. Ordered lots of house and garden plants. She potted them, and delivered them that same afternoon. She also planted some outdoor plants for me, and gave me some good advice about gardening in China.
3. Made a big pot of Chili with Beans Sunday night. We had it with cheese, onions and tortilla chips. It was a cold night, and it was just what we needed.
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Buddy's blog
I'm still here... |
Had my first bath in Shanghai yesterday at Mignon Dog Boutique. It was more than alright, I came outta there fresh as a pee-d on daisy. They even used the furminator on me, and my hair is super soft. I know I look good cuz when I walk down the street people stare. Sometimes they can't stand it and have to step away from me like they're scared. Seems like most of the dogs I see are all small, yippy-yappy dogs. She who is called MOM says that "it is very trendy in Shanghai to have a small, precious lap dog" and "some people are afraid of big dogs". Talk about a miss know-it-all.
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R U kidding me? |
I'm gonna show people what a real dog is like. I should go around Shanghai and strut my full doggy-ness. Let it flow, right?
If I can only figure out how to ride a bike...
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Eating baked goods...
There are lots and lots of really good bakeries here in Shanghai. They are French-Japanese style, and have great croissants and red-bean mochi. They all all similar that they have pastries displayed in clear plastic cases, and all self-serve. Customers take a small plastic tray, line it with pre-cuts wax paper sheets. Then take clean plastic tongs, and put the items you want on the tray. When you've made your selection, you take the tray to the counter and your order is rung-up and bagged.
I walked over to Thumb Plaza (shopping center, outside mall), and also checked-out Layas Plaza (luxury mall) across the street. Between these two shopping areas, there were (5) bakeries, all the same style - mostly interchangeable.
BreadTalk
This was the best one ever - Japanese sweet beans, and melted mochi inside a toasted sesame roll, served warm out of the oven. Lots of cute cakes and pastries too.
Q&T Cafe
Very Japanese-style. Lots of creme filled pastries and custard cakes. Best Cafe Au Lait I've had since arriving.
Ichido Cafe
These are all over Shanghai, Japanese pastry shops. They have one back home in Little Tokyo too.
Paris Baguette
These shops are also all over Shanghai, and I think there is a Paris Baguette in Monterey Park or Alhambra as well. This was the biggest shop by far, and they also make sandwiches for lunch.
I walked over to Thumb Plaza (shopping center, outside mall), and also checked-out Layas Plaza (luxury mall) across the street. Between these two shopping areas, there were (5) bakeries, all the same style - mostly interchangeable.
BreadTalk
This was the best one ever - Japanese sweet beans, and melted mochi inside a toasted sesame roll, served warm out of the oven. Lots of cute cakes and pastries too.
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Pizza rolls, raisin rolls and pumpkin seed |
WS Cake & Coffee
These were mostly French pastries, except they had Floss rolls. They are covered by what looks like flaky, cotton candy. It's actually dried meat, like a very dry jerky, that has been finely shaved. They have them at all the pastry shops and even sell containers of floss to take home.
Q&T Cafe
Very Japanese-style. Lots of creme filled pastries and custard cakes. Best Cafe Au Lait I've had since arriving.
Ichido Cafe
These are all over Shanghai, Japanese pastry shops. They have one back home in Little Tokyo too.
Paris Baguette
These shops are also all over Shanghai, and I think there is a Paris Baguette in Monterey Park or Alhambra as well. This was the biggest shop by far, and they also make sandwiches for lunch.
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lots of bread rolls with hot dogs in them |
Thursday, September 27, 2012
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The Lamb girls |
Today the International school is celebrating the UN day of Peace. There is an assembly at school, followed by a parade. Emily and Katie will walk with the USA section and are really excited. The UN day of peace celebrates diversity and also tolerance. They made hair bands and beads for their hair, and dressed in red, white and blue. Shanghai Community International School is about a third North American, a third Asian and a third European. The largest groups at the parade were from Korea, the Netherlands and the US. They all wore their country colors and held signs and flags. The parents in the audience were all tearing up - I know I was. The families all bring food representing their country for a pot luck afterwards. The Germany table had mini sausages and kugel, the Italy table had pasta and bread with Nutella, the Japan table had sushi and soba, and the France table have pastries and french cheeses. I brought PB&J and Ham&American Cheese sandwiches to the USA table. At least I didn't bring McDonald's.
Late Autumn Festival October 1st - 6th
Most businesses are closed and local chinese workers take advantage of the week off to return home to their villages. On the flip side, people from the villages come into the city to tour and shop. This is the time of year that moon cakes are eaten and given as gifts. Moon cakes are round pastries with sweet or savory fillings. The most expensive moon cakes are baked in molds with really intricate designs. Moon cakes are sold everywhere - stacked floor-to-ceiling. They are sold at markets, tea shops and even Starbucks. Disney moon cakes have a Mickey on them.

SUCCESSES
1. We have been eating lots of different things and I've been experimenting with foods I've never made. The markets are filled with fruit and vegetables that I had never seen before, lots brought in from local farms and Southeast Asia. The girls have been eating lots of Asian pear from Korea - much sweeter than we get back home. And Chris likes the Pomelo that is sold already sectioned.
2. Think I found my bacon! It looks more like pancetta, but the flavor is very Farmer John. Made it this morning and the girls loved it. Ahhh...bacon-y.
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Winter Dates - I think they're like crabapples |
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Pomelo sections |
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Asian pear - about as big as a small melon |
FAILS
1. Ordered two bean bag chairs for the girls' room. They arrived and are HUGE - almost the size of a twin mattress-, rectangular and flat. They look like gigantic versions of the ones we used as kids for bean bags toss games. The material they are wrapped in is the same as our pool cover back home - hard and stiff. I can either send them back or Buddy will have a new bed.
Monster bean bag chairs,..er, mats? |
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Seriously big |
2. Lots of things in our home have remote controls - the lights, AC, TV, etc. But all the remotes are only in Chinese. I'm getting it little-by-little. We have an iPhone app that helps, but not always.
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washing machine |
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TV remote |
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Not sure what this is about |
The weather this week has been very nice. Cool, in the mid - high 70's. Humid still, but not as bad as it's been. I'm told it is like this until the beginning of November, then it will be cold for months. We are anxiously waiting for our ocean shipment. It's here in China, and it needs to clear customs. The ocean shipment has everything that we were not able to bring in our suitcases. All of our paintings, pictures, books, as well as my kitchen items and extra towels, sheets etc. I don't think our place here will feel home-y until we get it. The kids want their craft bins and toys. And Chris' drums and his bike are in that shipment.
Will update again in a few days. I have been taking lots of pictures. Buddy has been working on something too,...a dog blog? hmmm...
Sunday, September 16, 2012
What I miss and don't miss....
THINGS I DON'T MISS
1. Cleaning my own bathrooms. In China, everyone has an "Ayi" which translated means "auntie". An Ayi is a housecleaner, nanny, helper, whatever you want. I just started having an Ayi, and she comes twice a week and cleans the floors, bathrooms, etc. For less than $5.00/hr and she is here for 4 hours. Some people have full-time Ayis, but ours is part-time.
2. Crime. There really is very, very little violent crime in Shanghai. You can walk at night and be very safe. The only crime here tends to be shop-lifting, pick-pocketing. People have their iPhones stolen a lot here.
3. Airplanes. There are no airplanes or helicopters allowed overhead. Planes must fly around China or directly into the airport. So you never hear any planes overhead.
THINGS I MISS
1. Bacon. With all the pork products here, I cannot find regular breakfast, salty, smoked, delicious, heavenly bacon. I find Canadian bacon, and a sort of formed pork pseudo-wannabe bacon. But no real bacon.
2. Good paper products. Toilet paper, paper towels, paper napkins, tissues. The paper products in China are not as cushy, fluffy and soft as in the US. Kinda thin and coarse - ouch.
3. Driving my own car!!! The taxis are plentiful, but the nearest subway stop from us is about 20 minutes walk. Non-chinese are not allowed to have drivers' licenses because they can't speak Mandarin or read the signs. I wouldn't want to drive here anyway - very scary on the roads. But still I really miss having the independence of my own car.
4. Trader Joe's. Sigh.
5. And of course, friends and neighbors.
1. Cleaning my own bathrooms. In China, everyone has an "Ayi" which translated means "auntie". An Ayi is a housecleaner, nanny, helper, whatever you want. I just started having an Ayi, and she comes twice a week and cleans the floors, bathrooms, etc. For less than $5.00/hr and she is here for 4 hours. Some people have full-time Ayis, but ours is part-time.
2. Crime. There really is very, very little violent crime in Shanghai. You can walk at night and be very safe. The only crime here tends to be shop-lifting, pick-pocketing. People have their iPhones stolen a lot here.
3. Airplanes. There are no airplanes or helicopters allowed overhead. Planes must fly around China or directly into the airport. So you never hear any planes overhead.
THINGS I MISS
1. Bacon. With all the pork products here, I cannot find regular breakfast, salty, smoked, delicious, heavenly bacon. I find Canadian bacon, and a sort of formed pork pseudo-wannabe bacon. But no real bacon.
2. Good paper products. Toilet paper, paper towels, paper napkins, tissues. The paper products in China are not as cushy, fluffy and soft as in the US. Kinda thin and coarse - ouch.
3. Driving my own car!!! The taxis are plentiful, but the nearest subway stop from us is about 20 minutes walk. Non-chinese are not allowed to have drivers' licenses because they can't speak Mandarin or read the signs. I wouldn't want to drive here anyway - very scary on the roads. But still I really miss having the independence of my own car.
4. Trader Joe's. Sigh.
5. And of course, friends and neighbors.
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